At pool or beach get-togethers, are you comfortable in your swim suit?

I remember when my wife gave birth for the first time and her figure changed a little. She was conscious of her look in a bikini so she would constantly call cheappoolproducts for pool supplies so she could just swim in our backyard pool rather than go to the beach.

I kept telling here that she looked gorgeous and her figure was still rocking but she didn't believe me until I took a photo of her in a bikini, a stolen, shot and showed it to her. Until now she keeps the photo of her and would admire herself as if no one is hearing her. 

Women are weird.

Yea. In the water it isn't a big deal, but especially when I am eating I feel pretty uncomfortable being just in my suit because it seems like everyone can see my belly expanding as I eat.

I guess you just make sure you bring a coverup or skirt to slip on when you get out of the water

Heck no I'm not comfortable! I guess it's a little better with just family, but this is a tough one.